What is BDSM?

BDSM is the acronym for bondage /discipline domination/submission and sadism/masochism. Simply defined, it is a set of sexual practices that are based on a dynamic of domination and submission. Thus, each member of the couple adopts one of these roles, although it is possible to exchange them.

The fundamental aspect is that it is a healthy, safe and consensual meeting. Both parties must agree on the limits and, in this way, the well-being of those involved is guaranteed at all times.

The term BDSM was coined in 1969 following the work of anthropologist Paul Gebhard; however, These practices were already present in very ancient civilizations and in very diverse cultures, so it is not something new.

From that moment on, and under these acronyms, a series of events are included that can vary in intensity and that do not always have to be presented at the same time. That is, each person and each couple can read and use the term differently.

To better understand what it is, we explain the meaning of each of the words from which this acronym is formed.

Bondage

Generally, the term bondage is used to refer to the restraints with ropes, ropes or other elements, very present in BDSM . However, in the past, this used to refer to the links of subordination that were established between masters and slaves, between feudal lords and vassals.

In this sense, in addition to naming immobilization for erotic purposes, it also implies a relationship in which power is asymmetrical.

Discipline

Discipline includes the rules, habits and behavioral protocols that people in the subordinate position must follow. Therefore, it refers to training with rules and punishments through which the dominant individual exercises power over his counterpart.

Domination

It refers to the role that one of the members of the couple takes to exercise control over the other. Thus, this person is the one who orders and disposes at will, showing dominance over the submissive partner.

Submission

It is the complementary role to domination. In this case, The individual adopts a posture of subjugation that places him or her under the will of the dominant. The submissive person obeys and allows the partner's actions, always in a voluntary and consensual manner.

Sadism

Refers to erotic practices in which one person obtains pleasure by inflicting pain or humiliation on another. Again, any practice that falls within this category must be safe and consensual, since this term has nothing to do with criminal sadism.

Masochism

In a complementary way to sadism, in masochism the individual obtains pleasure from suffering physical or psychological pain caused by the sexual partner. However, it always has the power to establish limits that must be respected at all times.